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Hello Henya; It sounds like you are dedicating your well-being to a religious turmoil that may be ongoing for 3,000 years. You are registering it from the worst moments, in the 1930’s and 40’s, but it is built on a hate of a much longer duration. It is also built in spite of the works of generations of earnest people, like yourself, trying to resolve it. Evidentially their narrative was/is not effective.

It is an inheritance that you received from your family, and maybe you are thanking them for it. Although it is a truth that I deeply regret, I did not directly receive that inheritance. I do however, have to deal with it, and with the 1,000’s of years of Western Europe’s atrocities, dealt to themselves. And they are playing out again today, in very big proportions.

(I only am judging by the results on the ground. I care less about peoples contorted justifications. If they want to kill, they will find a reason for it. It is true in this day and age, some people don’t like killing, no matter who is the perpetrator or who is the victim. They are not open to any “reasoning behind it”. They only call for a stop to it. )

You might be defining this conflict as your identity, and as the meaning and the aliveness you get from each day. It will bring a certain result. If it doesn't resolve in the next 30 years does that mean you will finish life in despair? With a lot of angst along the way? I would say the real (the whole) “you” has infinitely more possibilities.

My life conundrums come from the distorted way that I think and act. Nothing more complicated. My society’s contradictions come from their distorted stereotypes of thought and behavior, nothing more complicated. There is no “secret challenge” throwing an obstruction into my life or my country. I see human relations as simple and straight forward. There are built up prejudices, but they dissipate with justice, or build up with injustice.

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(Notice that I am not refuting what you say here or above. Things are happening.) But refuting could only be done on your playing field, within your narrative. I don't see that as a possible way out. I have said that there is no relief on that playing field, where the problem has proven a perpetual motion machine.

Why would any people want to be perpetual victims? You have to ask them, but I am sure they get some perceived pay-off. The powers that be have locked everyone, friend and foe, into their rhetoric.

That is not what I am offering in this comment. Certain people are very attentive to selected words and meanings, so they bounce back onto those certain things. Their attention is highly focused on that, and absent from the rest of, - which is most of - the world.

What is taking away human attention is simply their own cerebral activity. People do not know how to handle both their memory, and their attention separately. Their memory floods into their attention and clouds it all the time. People may call this clouding-by-the-memory as important thoughts and emotions. But it is essentially just the accumulated weight of memory which interferes with one's current perception. Some people are very heavy with it. Otherwise, it would be very natural for you to be attentive in 360 degrees all the time, but memory seeps into every aspect.

Instead of using this memory as the fantastic, phenomenal capability that it is, most people use it to cause harm and misery to themselves. Well, they try to inflict it on others too. Most of the time human beings are suffering about what happened ten or more years ago; or they may also be suffering what could happen the day after tomorrow. You too. The problem with most human beings, is that unless you stick a pin into them, they will be only half alive for most of the time. Inertia and automatism are a choice that people have taken to. I almost think it is part of the programming.

People can get out of that state only when a threat like a war, a pandemic, or some tragedy comes into their life. Only then they will become attentive and concerned about life. It is an unfortunate way to live. You could have this same level of abiding concern during every moment of your life. Concern should be because of involvement and engagement, and not instigated by horrific past perceptions.

We know life only to the extent we are attentive to it. What is the depth of your attention? Only to that extent do you experience life. If your attention is very profound, your experience of life is very profound.

Your attention could be like a simple light bulb – turn it on and the light falls equally on everything. Do you consider everything, or only attend to certain types? Most people can only pay attention to a certain thing that they have defined as “an interest”. Maybe they have conceived of it as a survival issue. What is worth your attention and what is not? – this is a very limiting way to look at it, when life is so very wide. Allowed to broaden, you might even find a solution to age-old problems.

Art and Religion also direct our attention. Much of our art is coming from deep levels of suffering and frustration because it was the European style during a certain period. And unfortunately, many religions in the world have eulogized suffering, certainly the Abrahamic Religions have. But we can become conscious of both, and countermand them.

In the East, the Yogic culture has always valued Ananda, blissfulness and ecstasy, as the highest values. Suffering is not a focus that’s valued, because they saw suffering as self-created. If someone is killing you right now, you are suffering with that. But when you are disconnected from life with sadness and fear, your choice is only suffering and frustration.

Whereas joy is not self-created. When you are connected with the life of this moment, you are naturally blissful.

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Jenine Baines's avatar

A piece I forwarded to many, Henya. 💚

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